Essential Playdate Prep

A tale of two camps: some parents approach playdates with trepidation, while others enthusiastically embrace them. Whichever side you find yourself on, a little preparation will help you reign in the chaos and create a little bit of joy for everyone.

Setting them up:

  1. Don’t be afraid to invite someone new - If your little one has forged relationships in their childcare setting or through your friendship groups a playdate can help their bond grow stronger. If you’re not familiar with the parent, write a letter or try and catch them as you’re passing at the nursery gates to offer an invitation.

  2. Agree on a venue - If you’re not comfortable at home, suggest an outdoor playdate in the park, at your local cafe or at your local play centre. 

  3. Chat ahead of time - Share essential information such as allergies, dietary restrictions, and any special needs to ensure the safety and comfort of every child. 

  4. Sort the guest list! Be clear with the parent as to whether they are invited, or you are giving them a pass for an hour or two child-free.

Playdates out of the home:

  1. Arrange a meeting place and time

  2. Set a rough timeframe for the playdate, based on naps or other commitments you need to get to

  3. Be sure to swap phone numbers in case of lateness or rescheduling

  4. Pack double the snacks, just in case

  5. Don’t forget your change bag

Playdates at home:

  1. Set up an activity - A pop-up play tent and toys, a mini disco, cake decorating or crafts. Having an activity in hand can offer a good icebreaker or distraction when needed.

  2. Be free from expectation - Prepare yourself mentally and emotionally to embrace the unpredictable nature of toddlers - knowing that laughter, tears, and even the occasional tantrum are all part of the journey.

  3. Offer food and drink - Offer snacks or a light meal to keep hunger at bay. Be sure to agree upfront if it is a lunchtime or teatime playdate, and it’s good to check dietary requirements ahead of time. 

  4. Childproof your home - The safety of little guests is top, so be sure to remove any valuable or fragile items before your home is filled with exited children.

  5. Be prepared for it to get messy - Keep wipes and cleaning things such as kitchen towels handy for any little spills or splatters.

  6. Be ready to adapt your plans - Be flexible based on the children's interests and energy levels. If they need some downtime with a movie, that’s just fine.